I guess that’s a really misleading title on a blog that predominantly tackles food. This entry is about Kato Repro Biotech Center’s Oocyte Pick-up and Cryopreservation Program also known as egg freezing in layman’s terms.
This isn’t going to be a very photogenic entry because I wasn’t planning on blogging about this but I found the response to my Instagram post about freezing my eggs pretty overwhelming and I thought a more detailed account of my experience could be of help to anyone who might be interested. Because turns out many of you are! You just didn’t know where to look and that’s if you even knew the procedure was available in Manila.
I was made aware of the option to freeze my eggs when I caught Padma Lakshmi, Indian supermodel and host of Top Chef, talking about it on TV a few years ago. The details of the interview are hazy to me now but I do recall her saying that she would’ve done it much earlier in her life if she had known about it.
Fast forward to 2016 – I’m 36, single, childless. It’s not a bad place to be but I was starting to feel a little anxious about the baby situation because, while there’s encouraging literature out there that says data on the rapid decline in fertility rates among women in their 30’s are questionable, I also didn’t know when my baby daddy was gonna show up and I wasn’t gonna sit around twiddling my thumbs. I love children and I know that I want my own one day. Plus, I didn’t know what challenges I faced having never been pregnant before. It just felt right to cover as many bases as I can.
So it was with excitement, curiosity, and even some apprehension that I went to Kato Repro Biotech Center at the Enterprise in Makati for a consultation.
A couple of things before I tell you about my consultation and beyond. Clinic hours are 830 AM – 330 PM on weekdays, 830 AM – 12 NN on weekends. They operate on a first come, first serve basis for first time patients. It’s best to be there as soon as they open or even a tad earlier – this place fills up fast and it gets busy rather quickly. My time at this clinic always averaged 3-4 hours. Bring entertainment.
The whole process will cost you P130,000 – P150,000 but this expense is trickled through charges that apply only for the things that are done on the day you are at the clinic. I will list those prices as I go along. Speaking of prices, I’m not connected to this clinic in any way and paid everything in full. Also, if you are a non-Filipino passport holder like myself you are exempt from 12% VAT so bring your passport.
When you step out of the elevator, you’ll see a guard stationed by the door. He will give you a number and ask you to sign a logbook. Take your blood pressure on the machine you see below on right, wait for it to print out the results then bring it, along with your number card, to the reception counter.
I consulted with Dr. Rudie Mendiola and after answering all my questions, he said that we could actually get started that day if I was okay with everything. (The recommended day is the second day of your period. I was on my third.) I think I maybe paused for about 2 minutes before I said yes. I liked what I saw at this clinic. I was sure that I wanted to do this. Why wait?
The first order of business was a blood test and a transvaginal ultrasound. That’s right, while I had my period. I’m not even entirely comfortable doing this during non-period days so this was pretty weird for me but the staff is professional which put me at ease. These procedures tested for STD’s, the state of my follicles, and hormone levels. When everything turned out to be normal, I was sent home with hormone injections and an ovulatory stimulant in pill form to be taken over the next 4 days.
I’m the type that goes pale at the sight of blood and I never ever thought I’d be able to inject myself with anything, even a pen injection like this one. But I surprised myself. The needle for this one is actually very thin so I only felt the faintest sting as long as I relaxed.
Total cost: P36,850.00
I returned to the clinic to do another transvaginal ultrasound to check how my follicles were responding to the hormone shots and ovulatory stimulant. This is when the doctor determines if you’ll stick with the old hormone shot or bump it up a notch. While my follicles were doing well, I got bumped up so I took home a new kind of hormone shot to be had over the next 3 days. I had to administer this shot with a legit syringe and the hormone came in powder and liquid forms in 2 separate vials that I had to mix using said syringe. This shot was not only more complicated but it also stung a lot more because the needle was bigger and the formula itself burned a little while making its way inside me.
Luckily, I had nurses around during my first 2 shots but I had to do the last one myself which I found to be nerve-wracking and I ended up 1) not doing a very good job of mixing the hormone formula and 2) bruising the injection site (2 inches below your belly button). 😔 But everything turned out fine so.
Total cost: P21,800.00
I went back to the clinic for another transvaginal ultrasound and blood test. All was well and the doctor told me that we will be harvesting 8 eggs. I was told in the initial consultation that a good number of eggs to freeze is 20 so I asked him about this and apparently that figure is based on women of all ages who have undergone this procedure. At my age, 8 eggs will apparently suffice for 3-4 children but I was urged to consider a second round of harvesting to be on the safe side. FYI, I’m told the best age to do this is 36 and under. I told him I’d marinate on it.
We scheduled the egg retrieval procedure to be done in 2 days. I took home one new hormone shot in pen injection form and was prescribed 200g of ibuprofen to be taken every 6 hours on Day 10.
I was feeling pretty normal up to this point but on this day I think the hormone shots were finally taking effect on my mood because I was feeling quite irritable.
Total cost: P6,500.00
I was told to be at the clinic 30 minutes before my egg retrieval procedure which was scheduled for 830 AM. I showed up bright and early with my signed consent forms in hand and a light breakfast in my queasy stomach.
I was shown to a treatment room with several beds separated by floor-length curtains and asked to change into a gown and wait.
This was a really anxious time for me. I had never undergone any kind of surgical procedure in my life and I was pretty scared. And when I was led to the operating room where I saw the operating table, stirrups, bright lights, monitors, and medical staff in scrubs, I was pretty much out-of-body-ing.
The procedure lasted all of maybe 15 minutes. It felt like a much more intense transvaginal ultrasound in that it uses a similar probe but with a needle attached to it. I thought the local anesthesia (which was injected inside me at the retrieval site) would be the most painful part but I barely felt it. The retrieval itself was quite uncomfortable and there was some dull pain at times but it was nothing unbearable. More than anything, I think it was my being scared half to death that made it traumatic. My nurse, nurse Joanne, held my hand the whole time and soothed me, even offering a stress ball at some point. It meant the world to me.
I was led back to my bed when it was done and I thought I was gonna faint on the walk over. It’s funny now but I really did! I lay in bed suffering from what felt like acute dysmenorrhea. In about 20 minutes, I was told that I could retrieve and discard the gauze from the surgery site (you should see some spotting but nothing more), get dressed, and wait outside for a doctor to see me.
When I finally sat down with Dr. Ednalyn Ong-Jao, the same doctor who performed the procedure on me, I was told that we were actually able to harvest 9 eggs. The ninth one was immature but was expected to mature within the day. (I’m trying to wrap my head around that, it’s fascinating.)
By this point, the discomfort akin to period cramps was almost gone and I was feeling pretty normal. I was sent home with 3 days’ worth of antibiotics. I felt a little bit sore inside on Day 12 and then got progressively better and back to normal within a few days.
Total cost: P65,450.00 which includes my one-year storage fee of P20,000 (Annual storage fee in succeeding years is P11,200.)
For a grand total of P130,600.00
So there! That’s what went down in a span of 11 days and now I have 9 of my eggs frozen and stored in a clinic in case I’ll need them in the future. And yes, I say “in case” because I still hope that the whole baby thing will happen organically without my having to tap into these reserves. But it sure gives me peace of mind to know that these eggs will be available to me if I’ll ever need them.
My heartfelt thanks to everyone who sent loving and encouraging words my way on social media. I read every comment and it gave me warm fuzzy feelings. If you’ve been wanting to look into this, I hope this helps you make an informed decision that’s right for you! All the best. ❤️
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